When you hear the name Robbins in the personal development world, you probably think of Tony Robbins, the larger-than-life motivational speaker who’s coached presidents and filled stadiums worldwide.
You might even know about his son Jairek Robbins, who’s carved out his own impressive career as a performance coach. But there’s someone else whose influence runs deep through this legacy, even though she deliberately stayed out of the spotlight, Liz Acosta.
Elizabeth Ann Acosta passed away on June 13, 2019, after a courageous battle with cancer.
Liz Acosta Biography
Born in San Diego, California, in January 1958, Liz Acosta kept the details of her early life remarkably private. We don’t know much about her parents, her childhood memories, or where she went to school, and that was entirely by design.
She grew up with two sisters, Annette Acosta and Vivian Acosta Rankin, both of whom shared her commitment to staying out of the public eye.
What’s clear from those who knew her is that Liz was independent, hardworking, and deeply principled. She measured success not by recognition or wealth, but by the quality of her relationships and the integrity of her choices.
Liz Acosta Personal Life
In the early 1980s, Liz entered a relationship with a young Tony Robbins, who was just beginning his journey as a motivational speaker. Here’s where we need to clear up a common misconception: Liz and Tony were never married, despite what numerous sources claim. Their relationship was significant and impactful, but it didn’t include a wedding.
Their son Jairek Robbins was born on May 26, 1984, in Santa Monica, California, the same year Tony married his first wife, Rebecca “Becky” Jenkins. The timing has caused some confusion over the years, but the facts are clear: Liz and Tony’s relationship had ended before his marriage to Becky. Following their separation, they maintained a cordial co-parenting relationship, always prioritising Jairek’s well-being above any personal difficulties.
After her relationship with Tony ended, Liz became the primary caregiver for Jairek, raising him as a single mother in Santa Monica while building her own career.
Liz later found happiness with Mike Raynor Jr., who worked at Walt Disney World Resort. The couple married (the exact date was never publicly disclosed), and they built a life together.
Liz Acosta Passing
Liz Acosta spent her final years battling cancer. She kept details of her illness and final days within the family circle. She passed away on June 13, 2019, surrounded by loved ones.
Something remarkable happened. Exactly one year later, on June 13, 2020, the first anniversary of Liz’s death, Jairek’s son Koa Penda Robbins was born. The timing struck the family as deeply meaningful, as if life was honouring death, and continuation was honouring memory. Koa’s name means “warrior” or “brave one” in Hawaiian, and his arrival on this specific date added layers of significance.
Jairek shared this touching moment on Instagram, writing: “A small miracle unfolded when Koa was born 12 months & on the exact day that my mom died a year before. We say he was a gift from heaven sent by her just for us on that special day.”